This year the best thing to happen to holidays since -- probably ever. The holiday tradition of my rearing centered around time tables, driving, complaining, and a Thanksgiving-type dinner. All of which dulled the excitement of giving gifts. This year, there's been a sea change. It's everything I never thought I could have for the season. Our quiet nights opening presents and talking as the candlelight fades, even if we must squeeze it in late, is the perfect remedy to any day's grumbling.